Logo design for my WUS Rancangan Perniagaan. We are going to open a bookstore call GooBook. It is meant for the combination of Google + Book..i like it =)
Monday, April 30, 2012
Logo
Logo design for my WUS Rancangan Perniagaan. We are going to open a bookstore call GooBook. It is meant for the combination of Google + Book..i like it =)
人生有三件事不能等
第一是“貧窮”
貧窮不能等，因為一但時間久了，你將會習慣貧窮，到時不但無法突
第二是“夢想”
夢想不能等，因為人生不同的階段，會有不同的歷練和想法，試想一
第三是“家人”
家人不能等，或許我們還年輕，未來有很多的時間可以讓我們摸索、
樹欲靜而風不止，子欲養而親不待也！這是很多人的痛，也是很多人
Saturday, April 28, 2012
Hope
毛毛虫以为的绝境，其实是蝴蝶美丽的开始。
What the caterpillar calls the end of the world, the Master calls the butterfly.
珍惜
在面子书上看见一个关于一个82岁的老婆婆被儿子关起来而且不给他送饭的一个新闻，现在的年轻人确实少了一些东西。都少了一颗心。一颗会给予长辈关怀，孝顺与珍惜的心。每当看到一些老公公老婆婆的照片都会让我想起我的公公。
转眼间，就那么的过了七个月。时间确实过得很快很快。但是有些东西想起来还是多么的清晰。我知道在我打这篇博客的时候，我会难过甚至流泪。但，我希望有些东西不要被我忘记，即使是伤心的，我也想把它清晰的记录起来。
那一天的傍晚，是我到了一个陌生得不能再陌生的地方后的两个星期。电话响了。传来的是一把熟悉的声音，说的也是一番熟悉的话但不一样的是中间的那一段停顿。停顿后的那一句话是我多么多么抗拒听见的 “ 阿公没了。 ”当下我立刻哭成泪人，就那一句那么短的话让我多么的难受。“别哭了，我本来也不打算告诉你。这里都没人哭，为什么你哭啊，别哭了。” “为什么那么突然，昨天还说好好的啊，还睡得很熟啊,不是吗？什么时候出殡啊？” “你不用回来了，你也不懂得回来啊。” “我一定要回去.” “你回来的话不是让我们更担心吗？你才刚到那边不久啊。” “你知道吗，在我还没来这之前我忘了跟公公说再见。我平时出门都会跟他说的，可为什么就这一次没说到！？。我到这里后也想到说要在电话跟他说的可是后来又想到不久我就回去了，到时再说也不迟，我现在没有机会了。你知道吗！！” “等你后回来，我们再带你去墓场拜他好吗？你现在如果自己一个人回来是很危险的。你听懂了吗？不要让我们担心好吗？” 我哭了好久好久。
我告诉自己听妈妈的话固然重要，但我不想后悔。因为害怕而导致的后悔。我决定不管怎样我一定要回去。后来我找了宿舍的团体帮忙，直到今天我还是非常感激他们，如果不是他们也许我会后悔。舍监帮我在网上购买了两张双程巴士票，当时已经是晚上11点了。我要在隔天早上的7.30出发。然而我连车站在哪里我都不知道啊，有巴士票都没用，舍监很好隔天早上的7正，他载我到巴士总站帮我领票甚至送到我上巴士同时塞了一百令吉给我。我真的非常非常的感激他。谢谢老天爷在我最需要帮忙的时候扶了我一把。我顺利的在隔天下午12.30到家了。走进屋子，一切变得多么的不熟悉却有张熟悉的不能再熟悉的脸孔正处在正中央。当时我是多么的想大声的哭啊但身边的婆婆多么不容易才控制着自己，我不想影响她。把泪往肚里吞。
“公公睡不醒了。我叫不醒他了。” 这句话使我眼泪还是流了。七十多年的老伴离开了，我知道她心里是多么的不舍得，多么的心痛。
我只能说了一句永远都不会得到回复的一句再见。
对不起，在你生前没有好好的珍惜你。我一直都知道自己对你不怎么好。想起以前的日子，虽然你一直都是静静的不说话，但我看得到，感受到你对我的好。每一个早上你都起得比我早，看着我去上学。甚至有一次你病了，还依然记得我的校巴怎么还没来载我上学。你静静的陪在我身边，但我却从来没有好好的看你一眼。你对每一人的好，别人都看不见。你默默的付出，我们却永远无法察觉。还记得小时候，即使你行动不方便却依然接送我放学。我却从来没跟你说过一句谢谢。你在我生活的出现，我都把它看得多么的理所当然。若我有珍惜过和你一起的时光，那么我就不会那么的内疚与后悔。若时间可以从来，我一定会注重你的存在。我要对你好。若时间可以从来，我不会说一些伤你的话，做一些伤你的事。若时间可以从来，一切都会有变化。然而，时间从来没有倒流过。时间依然走着。
我想说：“公公，你最近过得好吗？你一定要在另一个世界好好的生活哦。”
然而，他还会听见吗？我不晓得。
珍惜身边的每一个人是多么的重要。身边的每一个人都是你生命里唯独遇见的，不会再有第二个他。很多时候当人们习惯了身边自己拥有的人与物，都会把他的出现看成理所当然。身边的人对你好不是理所当然的。因为他们注重你，爱你，疼你，才会对你好。永远存有感激的心，感激你身边对你好的家人，感激你身边陪伴你的朋友。心存感激，你会发觉你身边的每一个人原来都是天使。珍惜所拥有的，你会发现其实你拥有的已经是很多很多。时常给自己的家人朋友说声谢谢，因为有了他们，你的生命有了声音，欢乐与色彩。做好今天，珍惜当下，你永远发现明天是个·海阔和漂亮的蓝天。
转眼间，就那么的过了七个月。时间确实过得很快很快。但是有些东西想起来还是多么的清晰。我知道在我打这篇博客的时候，我会难过甚至流泪。但，我希望有些东西不要被我忘记，即使是伤心的，我也想把它清晰的记录起来。
那一天的傍晚，是我到了一个陌生得不能再陌生的地方后的两个星期。电话响了。传来的是一把熟悉的声音，说的也是一番熟悉的话但不一样的是中间的那一段停顿。停顿后的那一句话是我多么多么抗拒听见的 “ 阿公没了。 ”当下我立刻哭成泪人，就那一句那么短的话让我多么的难受。“别哭了，我本来也不打算告诉你。这里都没人哭，为什么你哭啊，别哭了。” “为什么那么突然，昨天还说好好的啊，还睡得很熟啊,不是吗？什么时候出殡啊？” “你不用回来了，你也不懂得回来啊。” “我一定要回去.” “你回来的话不是让我们更担心吗？你才刚到那边不久啊。” “你知道吗，在我还没来这之前我忘了跟公公说再见。我平时出门都会跟他说的，可为什么就这一次没说到！？。我到这里后也想到说要在电话跟他说的可是后来又想到不久我就回去了，到时再说也不迟，我现在没有机会了。你知道吗！！” “等你后回来，我们再带你去墓场拜他好吗？你现在如果自己一个人回来是很危险的。你听懂了吗？不要让我们担心好吗？” 我哭了好久好久。
我告诉自己听妈妈的话固然重要，但我不想后悔。因为害怕而导致的后悔。我决定不管怎样我一定要回去。后来我找了宿舍的团体帮忙，直到今天我还是非常感激他们，如果不是他们也许我会后悔。舍监帮我在网上购买了两张双程巴士票，当时已经是晚上11点了。我要在隔天早上的7.30出发。然而我连车站在哪里我都不知道啊，有巴士票都没用，舍监很好隔天早上的7正，他载我到巴士总站帮我领票甚至送到我上巴士同时塞了一百令吉给我。我真的非常非常的感激他。谢谢老天爷在我最需要帮忙的时候扶了我一把。我顺利的在隔天下午12.30到家了。走进屋子，一切变得多么的不熟悉却有张熟悉的不能再熟悉的脸孔正处在正中央。当时我是多么的想大声的哭啊但身边的婆婆多么不容易才控制着自己，我不想影响她。把泪往肚里吞。
“公公睡不醒了。我叫不醒他了。” 这句话使我眼泪还是流了。七十多年的老伴离开了，我知道她心里是多么的不舍得，多么的心痛。
我只能说了一句永远都不会得到回复的一句再见。
对不起，在你生前没有好好的珍惜你。我一直都知道自己对你不怎么好。想起以前的日子，虽然你一直都是静静的不说话，但我看得到，感受到你对我的好。每一个早上你都起得比我早，看着我去上学。甚至有一次你病了，还依然记得我的校巴怎么还没来载我上学。你静静的陪在我身边，但我却从来没有好好的看你一眼。你对每一人的好，别人都看不见。你默默的付出，我们却永远无法察觉。还记得小时候，即使你行动不方便却依然接送我放学。我却从来没跟你说过一句谢谢。你在我生活的出现，我都把它看得多么的理所当然。若我有珍惜过和你一起的时光，那么我就不会那么的内疚与后悔。若时间可以从来，我一定会注重你的存在。我要对你好。若时间可以从来，我不会说一些伤你的话，做一些伤你的事。若时间可以从来，一切都会有变化。然而，时间从来没有倒流过。时间依然走着。
我想说：“公公，你最近过得好吗？你一定要在另一个世界好好的生活哦。”
然而，他还会听见吗？我不晓得。
珍惜身边的每一个人是多么的重要。身边的每一个人都是你生命里唯独遇见的，不会再有第二个他。很多时候当人们习惯了身边自己拥有的人与物，都会把他的出现看成理所当然。身边的人对你好不是理所当然的。因为他们注重你，爱你，疼你，才会对你好。永远存有感激的心，感激你身边对你好的家人，感激你身边陪伴你的朋友。心存感激，你会发觉你身边的每一个人原来都是天使。珍惜所拥有的，你会发现其实你拥有的已经是很多很多。时常给自己的家人朋友说声谢谢，因为有了他们，你的生命有了声音，欢乐与色彩。做好今天，珍惜当下，你永远发现明天是个·海阔和漂亮的蓝天。
Thursday, April 26, 2012
Motivation~
I have a outstanding lecturer that teaching us a few topics which cover leadership, motivation and one more i forgot. The way he having lecture is totally different from other lecturers. He likes to say this sentence "look at me, look at me", and everyone is stunned. He use to take some of the students as a case study, his method of teaching is interesting but is sometime annoying or maybe I should say because I used to the traditional method of learning. Anyway is a good exposure to meet a lecturer with different teaching method and different point of view.
He is having his last lecture with us today. I am inspired with one point he stated.
"The best gift in our life is living in the Present but not tomorrow and the past. What we did today can lead us to a better future from what we have experienced and learned from the past. ~ Sr Dr Ilias Said" Although some might think it is only a common statement but i truly agree what he told us. People who leave in the past will never see their future because there are keep surrounding by all negative matters that happened in the past. When we are doing our best in Today, we have no regret. We have no regret on tomorrow because what you did today reflects tomorrow.
I remember once I saw a short story regarding the importance of time.
"There is a bank that you can use to invest your money. The more money you invested, the more interest you will get. The bank can even double or triple your modal in a day. It can guarantee you to be rich for the rest of your life. However there is one term and condition that the bank apply. The money you put in can only last for one day. For another new day you have to put in another amount of money and again it will earn you more and more money. It continues the process non stop." Everyone wish to have a bank like that and actually everyone of us have it since we are born. The money you invested is actually your time. Time = Money. The time can earn us a lot but time cannot replenish. If we can't manage our time properly and it is all gone. The time still moves on day by day no matter what situation you are in. That is why it is so important to live in present and appreciate what you have own in present.
Why We Shout In Anger
A Hindu saint who was visiting river Ganges to take bath found a group of family members on the banks, shouting in anger at each other. He turned to his disciples smiled 'n asked.
'Why do people shout in anger shout at each other?'
Disciples thought for a while, one of them said, 'Because we lose our calm, we shout.'
'But, why should you shout when the other person is just next to you? You can as well tell him what you have to say in a soft manner.' asked the saint
Disciples gave some other answers but none satisfied the other disciples.
Finally the saint explained, .
'When two people are angry at each other, their hearts distance a lot. To cover that distance they must shout to be able to hear each other. The angrier they are, the stronger they will have to shout to hear each other to cover that great distance.
What happens when two people fall in love? They don't shout at each other but talk softly, Because their hearts are very close. The distance between them is either nonexistent or very small...'
The saint continued, 'When they love each other even more, what happens? They do not speak, only whisper 'n they get even closer to each other in their love. Finally they even need not whisper, they only look at each other 'n that's all. That is how close two people are when they love each other.'
He looked at his disciples 'n said.
'So when you argue do not let your hearts get distant, Do not say words that distance each other more, Or else there will come a day when the distance is so great that you will not find the path to return.'
'Why do people shout in anger shout at each other?'
Disciples thought for a while, one of them said, 'Because we lose our calm, we shout.'
'But, why should you shout when the other person is just next to you? You can as well tell him what you have to say in a soft manner.' asked the saint
Disciples gave some other answers but none satisfied the other disciples.Finally the saint explained, .
'When two people are angry at each other, their hearts distance a lot. To cover that distance they must shout to be able to hear each other. The angrier they are, the stronger they will have to shout to hear each other to cover that great distance.
What happens when two people fall in love? They don't shout at each other but talk softly, Because their hearts are very close. The distance between them is either nonexistent or very small...'
The saint continued, 'When they love each other even more, what happens? They do not speak, only whisper 'n they get even closer to each other in their love. Finally they even need not whisper, they only look at each other 'n that's all. That is how close two people are when they love each other.'
He looked at his disciples 'n said.
'So when you argue do not let your hearts get distant, Do not say words that distance each other more, Or else there will come a day when the distance is so great that you will not find the path to return.'
Wednesday, April 25, 2012
After a long way~
I just realize that when i grow older, i tends to keep everything in my heart without sharing it with anyone and even write it out. When i look back to all my previous post, i found that i got so many things to write out but now it seems difficult for me to have a proper post. Exactly like what happen to facebook too. Everyone likes to update their status no matter it is a short or long status but they share. As for me, i do not have any to share out. Sharing what is in my mind getting more and more difficult. What happen? i wonder too. When i show my blog to one of my friend yesterday, only i realize that i actually still own a personal blog. Which i leave it aside for such a long time. Now i want wish to have a proper post here.
The past one week, i can say it is a motivation week. Lecturers, story books and seminar everything are talking about CHANGE and BELIEF. If you can change today, you will have a successful tomorrow. Some sort of things like this. Even if they are not giving me such lecture, i already knew that one's change and their mental attitude are so important. Many of us tends to say "i can't do this and that well, i can't get good result in exam, i am not good enough". Do you realize that everyone of us never realized that "people are capable, at any time in their lives, of doing what they dream of - The Alchemist". For me it is so true. Every dream of yours can happen if you want it to happen. The positive mental attitude is so important. Similarly, my mom always told me, if there is someone want you to rate yourself how good you think of yourself, always rate yourself as excellent. Why? If you yourself don't believe in yourself, why are you expect others to think you are good? How can you look down on yourself at the same time expect people to think high of you? The mental attitude that one person had is so important. Do not feel guilty to tell someone you are the best among the best, because this is what you think about yourself. Although it will sometimes misunderstood by other people as narcissistic XD.
"World's greatest lie ~ everything happens to us and lives are controlled by fate - The Alchemist"
The past one week, i can say it is a motivation week. Lecturers, story books and seminar everything are talking about CHANGE and BELIEF. If you can change today, you will have a successful tomorrow. Some sort of things like this. Even if they are not giving me such lecture, i already knew that one's change and their mental attitude are so important. Many of us tends to say "i can't do this and that well, i can't get good result in exam, i am not good enough". Do you realize that everyone of us never realized that "people are capable, at any time in their lives, of doing what they dream of - The Alchemist". For me it is so true. Every dream of yours can happen if you want it to happen. The positive mental attitude is so important. Similarly, my mom always told me, if there is someone want you to rate yourself how good you think of yourself, always rate yourself as excellent. Why? If you yourself don't believe in yourself, why are you expect others to think you are good? How can you look down on yourself at the same time expect people to think high of you? The mental attitude that one person had is so important. Do not feel guilty to tell someone you are the best among the best, because this is what you think about yourself. Although it will sometimes misunderstood by other people as narcissistic XD.
"World's greatest lie ~ everything happens to us and lives are controlled by fate - The Alchemist"
选择
“你在哪裡唸書？唸甚麼科系？”這是學生們經常被別人問及的問題。在政府考試放榜後，在選擇科系茫然的時候，遇到這種問題尤其顯得焦慮。
“你從事甚麼樣的工作？”這問題則是踏入職場後，別人一般會問的問題。
對於一個陌生人，這兩道問題可以讓他從你身上找到方向，從而猜想、定位，你是甚麼樣的人。
倘若那個別人是身邊的親友，久未見面下，則可以這兩道問題衡量你。 在一般人的認知中，唸熱門專業如法律，必然是前途無量的；從事藝術，是玩票性質的興趣，不可以當飯吃；畢業那麼久，還找不到工作，一定是哪裡出問題；讀A科系卻從事B事業，不是老子有錢就是敗家仔。 人生何止這兩道問題，各種人們用以衡量、定位他人的問題或者眼光，無不是反映了某種價值觀。主流的價值觀必然是趨利避害，利益和機會在那裡，人的目標和方向就投向那裡。 凡夫俗子如你我，在主流或者說別人高舉的價值觀的影響乃至制約下，始出娘胎便被別人鞭策，或者自我推動要努力循著主流的方向前進，要不然在某個環節脫了軌，就會自此與“美好”的人生擦肩而過，嚴重甚至是從此庸碌一生。 其實，所謂某個行業“有出路”、“有錢途”，另些則注定沒市場，不是永恆的定律，還是會隨時代和趨勢出現變化。今天被看成是沒出息的行業，明天可能因為潮流或者政策而變得身價百倍。所謂的利益和機會，說穿了還不是被人的思維和看法操弄著。 在這個人人怕輸在起跑點的社會，起點上有著許多人在設定條件、規範；起跑後沿途上則不斷有人在指指點點。人生固然不會是一條直線，難免有曲折和變化，來到人生的十字路口，別人的意見和指點，可以是一種參考，但是，要往哪一個方向，則是個人的自主選擇。 我們要成為一個獨特的“自己”，而不是“別人”。很可惜，我們的學校、家庭、社會，從來不會幫助人做自主的選擇，甚至有時還要狠狠的摧毀多元的選擇，扼殺我們成為“自己”的機會！
誠然，人生是我們自己的，做自己喜歡又自在的事，人生就會多一些快樂，少一些痛苦。別人要如何說，如何想，我們阻止不了，只要我們認為選擇對了，就要勇往直前去完成，而且要快樂、自信地宣示，我一定能成功！
謹與等待放榜的考生共勉之。
摘自（星洲日報／情在人間‧作者：張立德‧《星洲日報》主筆‧言論不代表本站立場）
倘若那個別人是身邊的親友，久未見面下，則可以這兩道問題衡量你。 在一般人的認知中，唸熱門專業如法律，必然是前途無量的；從事藝術，是玩票性質的興趣，不可以當飯吃；畢業那麼久，還找不到工作，一定是哪裡出問題；讀A科系卻從事B事業，不是老子有錢就是敗家仔。 人生何止這兩道問題，各種人們用以衡量、定位他人的問題或者眼光，無不是反映了某種價值觀。主流的價值觀必然是趨利避害，利益和機會在那裡，人的目標和方向就投向那裡。 凡夫俗子如你我，在主流或者說別人高舉的價值觀的影響乃至制約下，始出娘胎便被別人鞭策，或者自我推動要努力循著主流的方向前進，要不然在某個環節脫了軌，就會自此與“美好”的人生擦肩而過，嚴重甚至是從此庸碌一生。 其實，所謂某個行業“有出路”、“有錢途”，另些則注定沒市場，不是永恆的定律，還是會隨時代和趨勢出現變化。今天被看成是沒出息的行業，明天可能因為潮流或者政策而變得身價百倍。所謂的利益和機會，說穿了還不是被人的思維和看法操弄著。 在這個人人怕輸在起跑點的社會，起點上有著許多人在設定條件、規範；起跑後沿途上則不斷有人在指指點點。人生固然不會是一條直線，難免有曲折和變化，來到人生的十字路口，別人的意見和指點，可以是一種參考，但是，要往哪一個方向，則是個人的自主選擇。 我們要成為一個獨特的“自己”，而不是“別人”。很可惜，我們的學校、家庭、社會，從來不會幫助人做自主的選擇，甚至有時還要狠狠的摧毀多元的選擇，扼殺我們成為“自己”的機會！
誠然，人生是我們自己的，做自己喜歡又自在的事，人生就會多一些快樂，少一些痛苦。別人要如何說，如何想，我們阻止不了，只要我們認為選擇對了，就要勇往直前去完成，而且要快樂、自信地宣示，我一定能成功！
謹與等待放榜的考生共勉之。
摘自（星洲日報／情在人間‧作者：張立德‧《星洲日報》主筆‧言論不代表本站立場）
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